The overlooked expense of parenting together after divorce

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The overlooked expense of parenting together after divorce
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Last Modified on Nov 12, 2025

When California parents go through a divorce, their primary concern is the well-being of their children. They want to provide stability and security well into the future, and one way many choose to do this is to co-parent. This type of custody plan allows the kids to have access to both parents on a regular basis, but parenting together in this way can be expensive in ways many tend to overlook.

Divorce comes with certain costs. It requires the division of all marital property, including retirement savings and assets, and one spouse may have to pay the other spousal support. There are other expenses a spouse may not consider before and during divorce proceedings, such as the cost of setting up a new home that is appropriate for children.

In addition to housing costs, there are expenses associated with furnishing a home as well. Furniture for the kids, kitchen tools, clothing, insurance and other costs can quickly overwhelm a California spouse who is already experiencing significant financial changes because of his or her divorce. This is why it is important to seek fair terms to a property division order and to secure a fair share of marital assets, including furniture and practical items.

California spouses will find it helpful to work with an experienced legal ally during their divorce. If they plan on parenting together, each parent will need to consider the expenses associated with that choice, both immediate costs and long-term costs. Having experienced guidance ensures that a parent can effectively pursue terms that allow him or her to provide a stable home environment for their children after divorce.

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