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Tips for breaking the news of divorce to your children

On Behalf of | Oct 25, 2022 | Divorce

Although your children are incredibly resilient, they’re also extremely fragile. As such, you might be worried about how they’re going to react when you break the news to them that you and your spouse are getting divorced.

It’s certainly a delicate matter that must be handled properly. Otherwise, you may unintentionally cause emotional and psychological harm to your child, and the disclosure may impact your relationship with your child.

How do you properly tell your children about divorce?

There’s a lot that you can do to ensure that breaking the news of divorce goes as smoothly as possible. This includes:

  • Telling the truth
  • Encouraging your children to ask questions
  • Reminding them that they’re not to blame in any way for the divorce
  • Avoiding blaming the other parent for the marriage’s failures
  • Telling your children that you love them no matter what happens
  • Listening to your children and validating their feelings
  • Reassuring your children that everything will be okay in the end
  • Finding a way to create a schedule and a routine that will provide your children with some sense of normalcy

Of course, you might have to modify your approach depending on your children’s unique personality characteristics and their ages, but hopefully, these tips prove useful to you.

Don’t forget to take care of yourself

Although your children might be your top priority in your divorce, you can’t adequately take care of them if you don’t take care of yourself first. This means that you should try to find a way to alleviate the stress that you’re facing. Although there are many ways to do this, one of the best may be to ensure that you have a competent legal professional on your side who can handle the conflict and zealously advocate to attain the goals that you’ve identified.