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Ways to make shared child custody work well

Protecting the interests of the children is one of the primary objectives of any California parent going through a divorce. Parents often choose to share child custody in an effort to give their kids a certain amount of stability and continuity of lifestyle. Shared custody may be the most beneficial for the children, but it can be difficult for two parents who just came through a divorce. There are certain steps that two parents can take that will make this process smoother and less stressful.

First of all, parents should remain as respectful and consistent as possible. Co-parents will also find it helpful to remember they can love their kids more than they dislike their ex, something that will help them keep the focus where it belongs. Regular monthly meetings will give parents the opportunity to discuss issues, upcoming events and other things, reducing the chance of conflict and confusion.

A shared family calendar can keep parents coordinated, and using certain apps allow the two parties to track expenses and changes in schedule. Staying on the same page will make it less likely that disputes will arise. Most importantly, the children should never have to act as intermediary between their parents, and parents should not ask them to carry important messages back and forth. There are many ways to make communication work well.

Shared child custody can be complicated. California parents who choose this option for their family should be willing to set aside temporary and non-constructive feelings for the good of their kids. The most important factor in making co-parenting work well is a thoughtful and carefully constructed custody order.